You cannot change the way another person perceives things; smile,.. and realize they may not be *quite finished* yet is a forgiving stand.
hmm/// smile?? really now!!! that's a little over the top
don't you think??
--- In DoIt_Yourself@yahoogroups.com, suzie <suziegano@...> wrote:
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> I have found that we truly do not know how we will act in difficult
> circumstances until we are experiencing them. some of us rise to the
> occasion others don't. people that haven't had a lot of adversity like
> to think they know how they will react, the rest of us just smile.
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> suzie
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> On 12/27/2012 9:55 AM, mountain953346 wrote:
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> > > On Dec 26, 2012, at 4:39 PM, Dale S wrote:
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> > > > On a personal note: My first wife, who is now deceased came to
> > > > visit our boys on two different occasions and stayed with my wife
> > > > and I for almost a month both times. What was more I was covering a
> > > > seven state area and was often gone for several days at a stretch,
> > > > Dale in the Flatlands.
> > > > Suesan Packer wrote:
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> > > >> I guess I am not the nicest person as I wouldn't give my ex anything!
> > > >>
> > > >> Suesan
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> > Suesan-
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> > Someone said that you might have to go through a death of close
> > one before doing what Dale did, having his ex stay with present
> > wife..and you would notgive anything...I guess I am in the middle...
> > having seen a tremendous amount of (useless) death in the Battle of
> > Khe Sanh and having about 24 ex girlfriends due to my wounds and
> > severe PTSD (now 1000% better)...I would welcome some of my ex's
> > into my present house with present wife of 5 years (a new record)
> > just based on simple humanity,,esp the ones that have my children
> > as a matter of decency considering the particular situation of
> > cancer that Dale mentioned...especially since almost all the women
> > I have related to all know how to use a laser guided compound
> > miter saw and have a pretty good tool kit of there own...go figure..
> > DIY'ers attract DIY'ers??? probably 1 or 2 are listening now
> > on this list...so I will sign off with "Happy New Years" to
> > everyone here...life is short..get along with everyone you meet
> > in some form or fashion..even nasty ex's..since I have found
> > that the biggest part of a nasty ex is a demon within me...and
> > once\that demon is conquered you never know what will happen.
> >
> > ///soap box back under work bench///
> >
> > Happy New Years,
> >
> > Rich and Kate
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